Success Intelligence

About the Author

Robert Holden, Ph.D., is an acclaimed psychologist and author known for his pioneering work in the field of happiness and success. He is the director of Success Intelligence and The Happiness Project, two innovative programs that collaborate with leaders in business, healthcare, education, and politics. Holden has authored numerous best-selling books, including Happiness NOW! and Shift Happens! His work emphasizes the importance of self-knowledge, authentic living, and applying wisdom to achieve true success.

Main Idea

Success Intelligence explores how to achieve and enjoy real, soulful success in a world that often values busyness and superficial accomplishments. Dr. Holden presents a comprehensive coaching program designed to help individuals create meaningful success by understanding their true desires, cultivating self-awareness, and balancing effort with grace. The book challenges conventional notions of success and encourages readers to apply wisdom to their pursuit of happiness and fulfillment.

Table of Contents

• Prologue: What is Success Intelligence?
• Vision
• Potential
• Authentic Success
• The Self Principle
• The Success Contract
• Inner Dialogue
• Wisdom
• Relationships
• Courage
• Grace
• Renaissance
• Be the Goal
• The Big Fear
• Happiness
• Saying Yes

Prologue: What is Success Intelligence?

Success Intelligence is about applying wisdom to success. In a "Success Culture," many people pursue success as a primary goal and often become obsessed with it. This obsession can lead to a constant self-attack for not being "successful enough." Dr. Holden challenges readers to redefine success by considering what truly brings joy, health, and meaningful relationships. He emphasizes that real success should not come at the cost of these essential aspects of life.

"Success Intelligence challenges you to apply your best thinking to success." - Robert Holden

Vision

In a fast-paced society, maintaining a clear vision is crucial for achieving true success. Dr. Holden describes how the "Manic Society" accelerates life to the point where we often lose sight of what truly matters. He stresses the importance of slowing down to cultivate a strong vision that aligns with our values and aspirations.

"Cultivating a strong vision, in which you learn to 'see' not only with your eyes but also with your mind and your heart, is essential for success." - Robert Holden

To illustrate, consider these examples:

1. Set aside 20 minutes daily for reflection and vision-building.
2. Regularly review and adjust your goals to ensure they align with your true desires.
3. Engage in activities that foster creativity and clear thinking, such as meditation or journaling.

Potential

Recognizing and respecting our potential is a cornerstone of Success Intelligence. Dr. Holden references William James, who observed that most people use only a fraction of their potential. Realizing and utilizing this potential intelligently is key to personal growth and fulfillment.

"Realizing our potential, and using it in intelligent ways, is our purpose and our salvation." - Robert Holden

For practical application, consider:

• Identify your strengths and find ways to develop them further.
• Seek feedback from trusted mentors to gain insights into your potential.
• Challenge yourself with new and diverse experiences to expand your capabilities.

Authentic Success

Self-knowledge is fundamental to authentic success. Dr. Holden argues that knowing oneself—understanding what we value, what inspires us, and what we are made of—enables us to live and work more effectively. Authentic success is about being true to oneself and living in alignment with one's core values.